I am wondering if you have fear of fire. If you have ever had an aedccint with fire then it’s possible that a fear of fire can stay with you. Even lighting a candle can trigger a fear response in your subconscious mind. I am sure you are very careful with candles and would never leave them burning. What I can suggest is a practical step of burning them on a very safe surface, like a kitchen sink that’s all metal, well away from all flammable materials. Scented candles can be nice to release perfume into a room, but they need to be monitored as well. So, what you need to do is satisfy yourself that you’ve made all safety precautions before you use a candle to scent a room. When you blow out the candle, reassure your mind that the candle is out. Say outloud The candle is now out and there’s no risk of fire . As long as your mind is assured of this, you’ll sleep peacefully.
I am wondering if you have fear of fire. If you have ever had an aedccint with fire then it’s possible that a fear of fire can stay with you. Even lighting a candle can trigger a fear response in your subconscious mind. I am sure you are very careful with candles and would never leave them burning. What I can suggest is a practical step of burning them on a very safe surface, like a kitchen sink that’s all metal, well away from all flammable materials. Scented candles can be nice to release perfume into a room, but they need to be monitored as well. So, what you need to do is satisfy yourself that you’ve made all safety precautions before you use a candle to scent a room. When you blow out the candle, reassure your mind that the candle is out. Say outloud The candle is now out and there’s no risk of fire . As long as your mind is assured of this, you’ll sleep peacefully.